By Nic Lindh on Friday, 03 November 2023
Matthew Perry always seemed like a good guy to me. Of course he completely immersed himself in the character of Chandler Bing, but was a solid actor in general from what I could see. I of course, as a sentient being, knew that he had issues with addiction and spent time in rehab during the shooting of Friends, but that was about it.
Reading his autobiography right after his passing is a bit of a gut punch. Boy, you talk about having demons. How he managed to perform at all, not to mention perform at the level he did is astonishing when you understand his struggles and the sheer depth of his addictions.
Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing feels very honest and raw, with Perry not flinching from accepting his own behavior and describing his struggles to get better, both with his addictions and the psychological issues driving them.
It’s also wrenching toward the end, as he has found his sobriety and gratitude for the blessings he has had, and you know he will soon be dead.
R.I.P.
Extremely Online traces the evolution of online influencers from the days of the mommy blogger to today’s YouTube megastars. How influencers engage with both their fans, their platforms, and their advertisers is constantly evolving, and Lorenz does a great job of both being exhaustive and of moving the story along. So many names! So many influencers! So many schemes!
As an Internet Old, it felt a little weird to read about trends and platforms I was only vaguely aware of as they were happening. Vaguely aware, since I am a cis white male and both the female and young social spaces where the most frenetic activity was going on are a bit outside my wheelhouse.
Lorenz makes the very valid point that a lot of especially early social media was derided as vacuous because it was by women, for women, and thus not to be taken seriously. I’m glad she wrote Extremely Online to help fill in the historical record and to give credit where credit is due.
I knew cryptocurrencies were mostly scams and that there never was a "there” there, but I’m still floored by Zeke Faux’s Number Go Up. It’s all scams and the worst human beings possible. Jeebus.
The story of course involves the spectacular flame-out of Sam Bankman-Fried, the debacle of using Bitcoin as official currency in El Salvador, those ridiculous NFTs, and the farcical Terra/Luna stablecoin scheme, but also the two real use cases for crypto out there: money laundering and ransom payments. Which of course leads to human trafficking and horrific abuses. Great work there, true believers.
Faux writes breezily and avoids the pitfalls of getting sucked in to all the made-up BS that shrouds the scams. Highly recommended and more than a little depressing.
Traces the beginnings of NASA and the Mercury program, and puts it in context of the Cold War and the fear of the Soviet Union dominating space, thus gaining the ability to drop nukes wherever it pleased.
Mercury Rising does a good job of showing the paranoia and fear of the Cold War, as well as the initial resistance to the cost of the space program and how it turned into a huge morale booster for the United States.
Also shows what a horrible hand John F. Kennedy was dealt as he entered the White House. And of course the amazing human qualities and weaknesses of the Mercury 7 astronauts, with John Glenn at the forefront.
This is a great look back at the fears and hopes of the beginning of the Cold War and the incredible effort by the astronauts as well as all the support staff and engineers working on making the rockets not explode catastrophically.
It boggles the mind that eighteen thousand people spread across the globe were involved in the first Mercury launch.
The End of the Myth is an extremely thorough look at the American psyche and its relation to the idea and concept of the frontier and expansion.
The book traces the American idea of expansion back to the Founding Fathers and how they intended expansion to prevent society from fracturing into haves and have-nots. They were keenly aware from the French Revolution what happens when the gap between haves and have-nots grows too wide. From there, the Blood Meridian and the Louisiana Purchase, then the expansion into Mexico, Puerto Rico, Cuba, and the Phillipines, and now the stagnation of no more room to expand and the Mexican Border becoming a crucial symbol.
The End of the Myth is exhaustive and dense and could have done with some editing—it’s a bit of a slog at times. But its exhaustiveness gives it weight and makes it hard to refute its central thesis about how the American myth is coming to its end.
A smoothly and punchily written tale of various operators in Washington, D.C trying to navigate the rocky return to “normalcy” in politics after the turmoil of the Trump administration, The Big Break includes congressional staffers, an oil fortune heiress attempting to become a power player, a now-disgraced Democratic pollster, a now-disgraced Republican kingpin, and a burned-out staffer who decides to stage his own one-man late-night protest in a senator’s office featuring shrooms, a joint, and R&B.
It’s an engaging, easy read, and also really frightening. I recognize these are all human beings, but for me they might as well come from Mars.
If you’re interested in the culture of D.C., pick up The Big Break.
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Includes Doppelgänger, Be Useful, Rose/House, System Collapse, and Empire of the Wolf.
Includes Hello World, A Frozen Hell, Powers and Thrones, Dead Country, Blitz, The Hope that Kills, and Worth Killing For.
We pour one out for The Expanse and Sandman Slim, and we raise our glasses for a sequel to Malazan. Also, an extra-bleak Holocaust tour and a discussion of how cults control their members through language. Includes Cultish, Nein, Nein, Nein, Driven, Happy-go-Lucky, The Nineties, Fargo Rock City, The Scholast in the Low Water Kingdom, King Bullet, The God is Not Willing, and Leviathan Falls.
Why your body hurts, lots of politics, and some truly demented grimdark fantasy in this installment. Includes Reign of Terror, Evolution Gone Wrong, The Cruelty is the Point, How to be a Liberal, The Splendid and the Vile, Deep Work, A Desolation Called Peace, Black Stone Heart, and She Dreams in Blood.
Includes Everybody Has a Podcast (Except You), Pappyland, Backstory, and Medallion Status.
Some very good history, some very strange novels and some slick space opera. Includes Enemy of all Mankind, A Very Punchable Face, Confederates in the Attic,Ballistic Kiss, Harrow the Ninth, The Library at Mount Char, Children of Time, The Last Emperox, and Cage of Souls.
Back once again with the sci-fi and general calamity. Includes The End is Always Near, Eat the Apple, A Memory Called Empire,Gideon the Ninth, Infinite Detail, Permafrost, Fallen, and The October Man.
A sci-fi and fantasy heavy installment that includes The Valedictorian of Being Dead, The Mastermind, Broadsword Calling Danny Boy,Tiamat’s Wrath, The Raven Tower, The Liberation, The Light Brigade and Cryptonomicon.
Includes The Incomplete Book of Running, Aching God, The Murderbot Diaries, Lies Sleeping, The Consuming Fire, and Rendezvous with Rama.
Includes Hollywood Dead, Tales from the Loop, Things from the Flood, The Court of Broken Knives, and Port of Shadows.
Includes The Storm Before the Storm, White Trash, Calypso, Tell the Machine Goodnight, Prince of Fools, and Provenance.
Mostly excellent non-fiction in this installment. Includes Fantasyland, The Miracle of Dunkirk, Das Reich, The Undoing Project, Waiting for the Punch, Vacationland and Points of Impact.
Lots of sci-fi in this installment. Includes Retribution, Boomerang, The Collapsing Empire, All Systems Red, and Ninefox Gambit.
Includes a mea culpa, Hillbilly Elegy, Gulp, The Stars are Legion, and The Kill Society.
Lots of fiction series in this one. Includes Grunt, 1177 B.C., Louder Than Hell, Smarter Faster Better, The Hanging Tree, Death’s End, Chains of Command, and Who Killed Sherlock Holmes?.
This installment features grimdark fantasy, peppy astronauts and the Roman Empire. Includes SPQR, And On That Bombshell, The Code Book, Schiit Happened, Beyond Redemption, The Severed Streets, The Martian and Veiled.
Includes The Antidote, One Nation, Under Gods, Losing the Signal, The Todd Glass Situation, The Last Policeman, The Three-Body Problem, The Dark Forest, Beacon 23, Killing Pretty and Queen of Fire.
Lots of fantasy and sci-fi in this installment plus a book about sports! Includes Boy on Ice, Difficult Men, Restaurant Man, The Red Line, Cunning Plans, Seveneves, Nemesis Games, Bitter Seeds, The Mechanical, Angles of Attack, and City of Stairs.
Nic is sad about Terry Pratchett's passing. Includes No Land’s Man, Idiot America, Something Coming Through, The Burning Room, Foxglove Summer, and The Dark Defiles.
Things go dark and magical in this installment. Includes So, Anyway…, Yes Please, The Mirror Empire, London Falling, Broken Homes, Perfidia, The Peripheral, Burning Chrome, and the Bel Dame Apocrypha Omnibus.
Lots of good reads in this installment. Includes All Hell Let Loose, Metallica: This Monster Lives, 10% Happier, Onward, Echopraxia, Cibola Burn, The Getaway God, Lock In, The Red: First Light, Terms of Enlistment, and Lines of Departure.
Solid reads abound in this installment of the roundup. Includes Console Wars, Your Inner Fish, Flash Boys, Digital Wars, The Perfect Storm, Tower Lord, By Blood We Live, I am Pilgrim and Lexicon.
Some great reads and a huge disappointment in this installment. Includes The Loudest Voice in the Room, Hatching Twitter, Dogfight, Ancillary Justice, KOP Killer, The Circle, Working God’s Mischief and Where Eagles Dare.
Some solid reading awaits you in this installment. Includes The Outpost, Masters of Doom, How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big, The Everything Store, Bomber Command, Gods of Guilt, and Low Town.
A slimmer-than-usual book roundup is heavy on the non-fiction, including several must-read titles.
Another book roundup, including some stellar athletes and soldiers, what might be the most jaded, soul-weary protagonist ever, and some grimdark fantasy.
Nic reads a book about the processed food industry and is incensed.
The Core Dump is back! Books were read during the hiatus. Includes The Coldest Winter, Oh, Myyy!, Tough Sh*t, The Revolution Was Televised, The Rook, Mr. Penumbra’s 24 Hour Bookstore, Gun Machine, Fortress Frontier, Standing in Another Man’s Grave, and The Memory of Light.
From a true patriot to a world-weary detective, a dead god, and a civilization about to sublime from the galaxy, this book roundup spans the gamut. Includes Where Men Win Glory, Wild, Inside the Box, The Black Box, Three Parts Dead, Red Country, and The Hydrogen Sonata.
From the heights of athletic excellence to the depths of depravity, this roundup includes The First 20 Minutes, Double Cross, The Heroin Diaries, Tattoos and Tequila, Dodger, Farthing, and Devil Said Bang.
Includes Wabi-Sabi, Making Things Happen, D-Day, Tallula Rising, Blood Song, The Americans and Amped. All in all, a happy romp through the meadows of literature.
Includes Search Inside Yourself, The Information Diet, Redshirts, The Gone-Away World, Wool, Leviathan Wakes, and Prince of Thorns. One of these may very well change your life.
Includes Shadow Ops: Control Point, The Night Circus, The Hunger Games, Quiet, The Science of Yoga, and Kitchen Confidential. Lots of good stuff in this one.
Includes Angelmaker, The Magicians, Magician King, Iron Council, Thinking, Fast and Slow, Distrust That Particular Flavor, and Talking to Girls About Duran Duran. One of these is the most important book of 2011.
Includes The Drop, Ready Player One, Moon Called, Among Others, Excession, Inferno, The Paleo Solution and I am Ozzy.
Includes Sandman Slim, Snuff, The Cold Commands, Reamde, Goodbye Darkness, Steve Jobs and The Psychopath Test.
Some books you might enjoy reading.
Matt Taibbi’s Griftopia is an important book, and it will make you angry enough to froth at the mouth.
The Heroes is an intense, wild ride into a maelstrom of violence, brutality and flawed human beings. You should read it.